Thank You Tesia for a clear and true assessment of what could be good about Loving another. Might I add?
When you love someone, give them up. Let them be free. Free yourself. Unbond yourself. Care not who they have sex with or spend their time with or how they spend their money. After the hor-moans wear off, you will see that there is no need for all the self-induced pain. Go forwards and see if that person is still next to you when you awake in the morning. Say thanks if they are and say thanks if they aren’t. Either way you are free of the BS that society cooks up, that keeps you down… and for goDz sake create your own rules of engagement and ignore Hollywood movies…