Smartest sex article I have read… ever. Anything other than enthusiastic consent is a range of self or mutual masturbation, no? Some of that can unconsciously verge towards rape whether asked for verbally or not. Alcohol is often involved in non-consensual acts of abuse or self-directed violence. Let’s not forget that some of this is genetically driven through a filter of unhealthy societal mores. Naked Apes having a moment of frustrated release.